I am re-reading a book I reviewed here on Lucullian about four years ago, it is called
Alone In the Kitchen With An Eggplant and it is a lovely collection of essays on eating alone or rather cooking for one. Like a lot of people, I cook and cook for family and friends but when it comes to feeding myself alone, I tend just to stuff whatever I find into my mouth and completely forego the preparation of a meal. And that can be OK for a meal or two but considering I eat lunch alone almost every day (my son comes home for late lunch but I never share the meal I make for him) I really should make an effort. Because I am worth it. We are all worth it. So I am trying to make up for it, hoping it will last longer than the reading of the book.
To be honest I don’t mind eating alone, nor cooking for myself only and the reason to why I don’t do it often enough is that I like to feel free of that constant chore of cooking a meal but above all, the choices to be made. Oh how I dislike to make all these choices that every day of my life bring along. Some are easy and fun to make but it seems to me that most of them are just a heap of rather boring choices and having a family have only added to that. The first time I really became avare of the burden choices bring along was when me and my brother emptied our parents house, I worked on it almost daily for two months and although there were some very sad moments dealing with memories, the worst was all the choices we had to make, to take the responsibility of throwing or giving away things that we knew had meant a lot to my mother and my father but meant less to us. It felt like a continuous betrayal. After that I began to dislike having to make choices, even simple ones.

But cooking for myself has the great advantage that I can indulge in whatever I feel like that precise moment and right now I have a weak spot for tomatoes and eggs. Always had it but right now it seems irresistibly tasty so I am working on variations on this theme, the other day I made a more Mediterranean version with couscous, black olives and capers. It was good, very good.

EGGS AND TOMATOES WITH OLIVES AND CAPERS ON COUSCOUS
1 serving
6 small tomatoes or 2 big
1 egg
8-10 small black olives
1 tbsp capers in salt
finely chopped parsley
100 ml/ 0,42 cup cooked couscous
salt
extra-virgin olive oil
Rinse the capers and put them in water to soak a little.
Divide the tomatoes or if they are bigger, cut them in smaller pieces. Cook them gently in a small skillet in some olive oil.
When the tomatoes begin to caramelize and get wrinkly,make space in the middle and crack the egg into the skillet. Go on frying, on both sides if you like that.
Add capers and olives, season to taste but remember that the capers are still quite salt.
Put the couscous on a plate or in a small bowl, slip the eggs and tomatoes on top and sprinkle with chopped parsley before serving it to yourself!
L
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Ilva, I belong to an online food book club and we recently read this book. It was wonderful, I thought. (Maybe you would like to join our group?)
Sounds very easy to cook and also very good!
Looks delicious. Would love for you to share this with us over at foodepix.com.
So true Ilva. I am guilty of the same thing. I cook and cook almost everyday yet 3 out of 7 days in a week, I skip lunch
. I am inspired by what you are trying to do and what you said “We are all worth it!”
Yum and gulp! I love this kind of easy, vegetarian meal! Wonderful photos!
This looks like just the type of thing I would make when I am eating alone as well! I too have solo meals (usually lunch during the week) and I love them…love the feeling of treating myself to something I like without having to think about anyone else
Yes, we all definitely deserve that!
I love cooking for myself. It doesn’t happen very often, but when it does, I make sure to treat myself to something very tasty.
Thank you for the book recommendation!
P.S. Lovely banner!!
laurie colwin, one of my heroines is the author of the title essay, i love and miss her, thank you for reminding me about her.
and thank you for so many wonderful moments in italy.